It is so easy for us to look and stare at our spouse’s flaws. Temptations and our personal lusts want us to question their qualities. We are to focus on their best qualities. If we do that, the scale will always have more weight on the good side rather than the bad. Ways that can help the scale and your eyes is by giving constant praise for the good things they do. These qualities don’t have to be just about good things they do for you, but good things they do for others as well. You have to control what your eyes see. They are what create your perception of your spouse. If you look at the good things over here, then you would spend less time looking at all the bad things over there. Spread The Soup!